What's Wrong with this Picture?

[Kizzie]

So my cousin emailed tonight to say her mother has been diagnosed with a brain tumour and is only expected to live a few months. Very sad news to be sure, but what upset me even more was that at the end of the email my cousin said she had called to tell my M the news, and that she was worried because my M had taken it hard. She asked me to touch base with my M to make sure she's OK.  (It isn't my M's biological sister by the way, it's my F's sister). Really?

My covert NPDM is that good that my cousin probably doesn't even realize that my M ended up centre stage in what is a difficult time for my cousin and her family, that she should be receiving comfort not worrying about my M.  Sad, sad, sad that those who have NPD often trade on tragic situations to direct attention their way.   

Anyway, tks for reading my little rant, now I am going to take a deep breath and let it go to the universe because there are much better ways to use my time and energy. 

[Three Roses]

  for you catching that!