I emailed Pete Walker

[Annegirl]

He emailed me back, !!!! twice
the most interesting thing he said which I completely agree with is that no child is born with a PD, its all from bad parenting.
I can copy and paste email if anyone wants to see. My mother was parented badly and got fight cptsd which apparently is another name for being a narcissist.?

[Rain]

I'm so sorry for what you went through Annegirl.   A dear little precious child you were, and are ...and you got treated that way.   

[Annegirl]

Like you, I think it totally reflects the parents' bad parenting. I never
seen a child who was born with a personality disorder. Congrats on not
following in their legacy. It is a great credit to you.

Best,

Pete

and I want to add (me Annegirl) it makes me wonder why parents say their children have a PD back each other up, keep up their bad parenting and don't think about about changing it.

[Rain]

How very cool Pete wrote you back twice, Annegirl.