Like you, I think it totally reflects the parents' bad parenting. I never
seen a child who was born with a personality disorder. Congrats on not
following in their legacy. It is a great credit to you.
Best,
Pete
and I want to add (me Annegirl) it makes me wonder why parents say their children have a PD back each other up, keep up their bad parenting and don't think about about changing it.