Dealing with smears

Started by Rainydaze, July 29, 2017, 09:26:10 AM

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Rainydaze

Hi Lingurine.  :)

Yes, I think you're absolutely right and I'm pleased to say that I'm beginning to get much better at validating myself. I've been strict about who I share what with which helps, plus if I'm not comfortable discussing my situation with someone then I quickly change the subject (MIL means well but sometimes brings it up casually as though it's something to gossip about :blink:). I think time and my refusal to seek out 'unsafe' people's opinions is really helping.