Elpha's new adventure

[Elphanigh]

Thank you! I spent the afternoon doing yard work but it went well. We have a get together with smores and such tonight, with some old friends from HS.  I haven't seen a lot of them in a while. It should be a laid back evening under the stars

[sanmagic7]

hope you enjoyed - it sounds like it could be a lot of fun.  i'm just glad this trip is so far going basically well for you, sweetie.  love and hugs.

[Elphanigh]

It was really good. I am glad it has basically gone well too, although I am surprised at that fact

[sanmagic7]

you're a different person now than you were the last time you had contact.  give yourself credit - you're making your life your own as you're reclaiming yourself.  well done!   love you.

[Elphanigh]

I am every different than last time I was here. Going home for Christmas last year was entirely too early, the six months more of healing in therapy has really made such a gigantic difference for me here. I feel like I can stabilize and not have to change myself for them, because I recognize it isn't my job to change for them. I just have to live the life I am building and be happy with that choice. I am, I think, finally happy with it. 

[sanmagic7]

yahoo!  and giddyup!  that's so great to hear.  love it, love you.

[Elphanigh]

Thank you! I love how this can be celebrated here. It means the world that other people understand it

[Deep Blue]

We love celebrating your victories with you. 

Phew I think I got the good ones 

[Sceal]

So very happy to hear that you've hade wonderful days! You deserve it so much! 

[Elphanigh]

Thank you for the celebration Sceal 


I am headed back to where I live today, will be a long 12 hours of travel but that is okay. The trip ended up being what I needed, and I am glad to be heading back to my life in the city though.

I have a lot of new things to look forward to. I have been given a job offer, a new car as of Friday, and I will be moving out of my apartment on the 15th. Lots of change but I am excited to be making it. This will be a giant transition period but here we go 

[Deep Blue]

Elpha,
A new adventure indeed.  So happy for you darling.   

[Elphanigh]

Thank you Deep blue 

[sanmagic7]

just to let you know i'm thinking of you.  you're in my heart. love and hugs.

[Elphanigh]

San, you are in my thoughts too. Have been wondering how you were  love you

[SpacePasta]

Wow, that's amazing Elpha! So much positive change in your life now. It's much more comfortable to live this way.